Do I have an eating disorder? Bookmark and Share

Sometimes it’s useful to think of difficulties with eating, weight, size and body image in terms of eating disorders.  A diagnosis can help identify or confirm that there is a problem to be addressed, and it can provide a pointer as to what kind of treatment might be helpful.  Also, the person diagnosed may then be better able to understand what is going on, and better able to see their difficulties in a constructively neutral way without blaming themselves--just as they would with a physical illness.

When it comes to eating disorders there are a number of problems to thinking in these terms.  One is that there can be a fluidity about eating issues that doesn’t match the fixedness of this approach.  For example, it’s not uncommon for someone once diagnosed as having Anorexia Nervosa to later fit the criteria for Bulimia Nervosa, or to find that as they start to recover they fit the Anorexia Nervosa criteria only some of the time.  Also, there are a large number of people who regularly or persistently experience significant distress in relation to eating and their body image, but who don’t fit the criteria for a diagnosis.   And in many diagnosed cases there seems to be a mismatch between what people experience and the categories available to describe these experiences, so that over 50 % have a diagnosis of ‘Eating Disorders Not Otherwise Specified’.

So sometimes it’s more useful to think of difficulties with eating and weight, size or body image in terms of where they fit on a scale, like this one.


 

At one end of the scale are people with very severe difficulties, at the other are those who have complete freedom with food.  Most people from a westernised, industrial culture are at various points in between the extremes.  And they may move up and down the scale at different times in their lives.

The advantage of this way of thinking is that it helps give proper attention to those eating or body image issues which don’t fall under the strict diagnostic criteria for eating disorders but are still distressing.   Also, instead of the either/or situation of having a diagnosis,  it allows people to look at both the issues and at recovery from them in a more detailed way.

Whatever way you think about these issues, there’s good news:

It is possible to recover from an eating disorder.
Wherever you are on the scale, it is possible to move towards the 'no issues' end of it.

Many eating issues can be damaging to the immediate and long-term health of the person experiencing them.   It's important to find out what the risks are so that you can make informed decisions.  If it would be helpful to talk about this, or if it would be useful for you to know whether or not you have a diagnosable eating disorder, the next step may be to discuss it with a professional.

 
About eating issues Bookmark and Share

We all vary in when and what kind of foods we like to eat.  But for some people, their approach to food and eating brings them stress; or else overeating, avoiding food or compensating for food eaten takes away from their overall quality of life.   If you’re experiencing any of these...

  • bingeing
  • stress around food
  • always going on and off diets
  • thinking about food all the time
  • feeling out of control around food
  • worrying about the effect of what you've eaten
  • difficulty in knowing what’s hunger and what’s not
  • constantly planning how to restrict your food intake
  • difficulty in stopping eating when you’ve had enough
  • trying to compensate for eating more than you planned
  • being in an endless battle to control the amount you eat
  • eating differently when alone from when you’re with others
  • going hungry to feel better about yourself or to be able to cope
  • having rigid food rules and getting anxious about breaking them
  • only feeling OK about yourself when you've managed to restrict what you eat

...then you may have some eating issues waiting to be healed.  The good news is that with the right help it is possible to find healing for eating issues and to experience peace, satisfaction and freedom in relation to food and eating.

 
About size, weight and body image Bookmark and Share

In the culture we live in, there is a widespread belief that a slim, streamlined figure is better and healthier than a big, curvy one.  This belief is often incorrectly presented as a timeless and universal truth.  And it's presented in so many different overt and subtle ways, that many people (women in particular) feel under pressure from themselves and others.  This pressure is the ceaseless one to achieve or maintain a particular size, shape or weight-- whether or not this is the one they were designed to be.

If you have experienced this pressure, you’ll know it can affect your body image-- the way you see, think and feel about your body.   And a negative body image-- experiencing part or all of your body as not good enough-- can have a negative effect on how you think and feel about yourself.  It can also affect what you do, including the way you approach food.

As a natural result of this situation, many people are repeatedly or continuously involved in trying to change the size or shape or weight of their bodies, whether this is through dieting, through a driven approach to exercising or through other means.   Often the diet's promise of body confidence and peace of mind never fully arrives.  And mostly these activities don’t produce the desired result; or they only do so initially and then never again; or only do so great cost and with diminishing returns; or they lead to bingeing.

Perhaps you’re reading this website because of a dissatisfaction with all or part of your body. It’s a radical and courageous step to take, to admit that the most widely accepted approaches to dealing with this dissatisfaction aren’t working for you.  But for those who do take this step and are willing to consider a different approach, the good news is:

There are alternative solutions.

And with the right help, it is possible to find freedom with food and feel good about your body.